Women – supposedly – won’t date a man with little or no dating experience.
It is what it is and that’s ) why you’ve had few (or no) relationships or sexual partners.
Something I’m always saying is that excuses don’t help; they’re a way of getting out of taking responsibility for your actions.
The assumption is that women (because this is almost always a hetero male issue) will date a man who can rock their worlds and a virgin has no chance of pleasing her.
And once he does, she will spread the word through the Cute Girl Network and ensure he’s blacklisted from all sexual activities in the future.
In reality, it’s the constant fairly small; the average man has around 6 sexual partners in his lifetime and usually loses his virginity between the ages of 17 to 24.
In fact, the younger you are, the odds higher are that you’re actually going to have fewer partners than previous generations.
The numbers are arbitrary and invented and almost always tend to be pulled from thin air; I’ve had statistics when it comes to sex and relationships.
We tend to make assumptions based around expectations built up by pop-culture and expectations about what makes a “real” man, assuming that everybody (but us) has been riding the sex train since the 5th Grade while we’re still Machokeing our Combusken at 19.
They set themselves up for failure by looking for reasons why others couldn’t possibly like them or why they couldn’t improve, and wait for the Universe to deliver instead.