My datings Relationship Advice practice has gained an important aouthoritative support. Joe Sure, the women will get responses from only those men who are interested in the real person. Their entire business model is built on you dating THEM, not anyone else.
But, we all know women, they won't like those guys and decide they can do better... And, as we all know, proper dating procedure occupies a middle ground between truth and lies, so their fraudulent business must be based on lies and deception.
If you do not be prepared to lower your standards or working significantly harder and becoming very very bland in your profile. Her name is Marta and she is from Poland but it;s not a problem for me (I'm French).
we are happy together, nothing else is important to me :) Mass media marketing is for the big boys (Coca Colla and such), not for me and you.
This may sound like a sensible romantic strategy—why eliminate possible partners by revealing the scar on one side of your face or the fact that you’re obsessed with Star Wars kitsch?
An excessive concern for what other people think inevitably leads to what Carl Jung famously described as a persona, in Jung’s words "a kind of mask, designed on the one hand to make a definite impression upon others, and on the other to conceal the true nature of the individual."Yagan describes the fallacy of this please-them-all approach.
But as time went by I slowly changed to be more “loved by all”.
Instead of stating my education level or my career field I simply indicated educated and employed.
We interviewed the founders of Ok Cupid, one of the most successful online dating sites, for a chapter on “How to Find Love Online” in our book “The Art of Doing.” Although the founders claim no lothario-like superpowers—based on their teeming mass of statistical data and observational evidence they can advise us on how to find someone online who will love us for who we really are.
Many people believe that when seeking a partner online they should try to appeal to the largest possible pool of people.
When someone posts an attractive profile photo that reveals nothing about their inner life, he told us, that sort of image may generate a positive response but it’s not likely to lead to matches.
“Getting 99% of the people to kind of like you is a waste of time,” Yagan said.
Next you have to have the courage to present an accurate reflection of your true self. “Women with tattoos and piercings have an intuitive understanding that when they show off what makes them different some people won’t like it, but they’ll get lots of attention from the men who do.”In fact Ok Cupid’s data show that men message women who they believe appeal only to them messaging women who they believe will appeal to everyone.